You’re Always Welcome

The other day as I was cleaning/ organizing my basement, I came across some old pictures. One was my daughter’s baby dedication. Pictured were my dad, mom, father-in-law, mother-in-law, and my husband’s grandmother, Geneva. Maria was also in the picture being held by my mother-in-law.

I was reminded of 2 families that spent time together. Many holidays were spent with BOTH sides of the family together. I think this is rare. My in-laws also supported my dad’s church during his last 5 years of ministry. A week before my dad passed away, we were all together down at the lake spending time on the boat. It’s a special memory.

We are blessed to have so many memories of 2 families that spent time together and liked each other.

Now, as I look ahead to Christmas, I can’t help but be reminded of the family in the picture who won’t be around the table. Everyone in that picture (taken over 18 years ago) is in heaven now except my mom. (and daughter) I am grateful for the legacy of a family willing to spend time together. I want this legacy to continue through my husband and me. One day I want Brantley to look through pictures and see families who loved each other and spent time together.

Be thankful for those around your table. The landscape will eventually change. Every single person is a gift. Enjoy old traditions and begin new ones. Years from now your family will be looking through old pictures. What will their memory be when they come across a picture from this Christmas?

I want my family to remember the words “you’re always welcome.”